Authors of Erotic Romance

Why read Erotica? There are several reasons why I have read Erotica… to get in ‘the mood’, because I’m feeling sexy, or to get inspiration for writing my own are just a few reasons. I did a little poll of several of my friends who also read (and write) Erotica and they had pretty much the same thing to say. It can be a real turn on if it is done in a way that speaks to the reader.
This led me to ask the question – what do you like? For me it has to be tasteful. I’m not a big fan of vulgarity which really depends on what your definition of vulgar is. For some, and I’ll venture to guess that they don’t read much Erotica, any slang term is vulgar. For others the more hard-core the better. Of course there are many layers in between as well.
One polled friend said she liked for it to be realistic. It needs to be something she would see herself doing or a situation that is believable. I agree with this to a point. It is fiction after all but even in my mind I’ve fantasized situations that I would never be in. Again, it depends on your preference and what mood you are in at the time.
I do tend to get in trouble when I read it. I like very romantic Erotica which is probably why I started out reading Harlequin Romances in Jr. High and then moved on to something with more ‘action’ to it. I then find I want to experience some of that in my own sex life it can be… interesting at times! But as long as you have a willing partner – it can also be a lot of fun!
How often do you read Erotica? For me it varies. Sometimes I just get in a mood and especially if there is a good plot involved the Erotica is just a plot device, and especially if it well done then I find myself wanting to read more. Sometimes I have gone a year or more and not read any. I have one friend who had not read any since she was in junior high – that raging hormonal time of youth.
Whatever your reasons, likes and dislikes or turn-ons, there is something out there for everyone. And if you can’t find anything that really speaks to you – write your own!